Abcd89 (original poster member #82960) posted at 1:56 PM on Wednesday, June 18th, 2025
Sisoon - good questions
Do I really want reconcilliation - I’m
No longer sure. I’m certainly no longer as afraid of separation. Something has shifted.
Is he a good candidate? I would have said yes 2 years ago - but I think the depth of my anguish and anger and pain has been too much. I really hated him for a long while. He struggled with that. I trust him around so many aspects of our life.
When I look at him I no longer see him how I did. I’m not sure I ever will. In many ways I feel sorry for him. It’s not ideal.