ME: BH Her: WW DDay 1, R; DDay 2, R; DDay 3, I left; Divorced Remarried to a wonderful woman

"There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind." C.S. Lewis

As a dog returns to his vomit, so a fool repeats his folly...

I.T. Help for Potential Wife Betrayal

I need some IT help to see if my wife is cheating on me. Or let’s say ‘crossing a line’.

She’s heading out the first week in March to a conference. Normally I can go if I choose and will make it a remote working time in a hotel. This time she has adamantly refused me to go. She tells me not to show up to take her to lunch or dinner…. And I don’t get a satisfactory answer as to why. None of her writing friends will be there, but I do know she will be attending a week-long conference.

I have access to her email (which I never use, but will a few weeks surrounding the conference) and now want to access her texts. We both use Google Messaging. I know there’s a way to pair our phones together. But can it be done for me to receive her texts and hers not mine?

What I need to do has to be free. She gets alerts for every penny that comes out of our accounts (due to a bank issue years ago).

I appreciate any help I can get.

Thank You

0 comment posted: Friday, February 6th, 2026

SpyWare Question

My wife works as a writer and belongs to several associations... As such she is always being chased by guys- usually via email as she doesn't text much and most the guys are late 50's early 60's. She doesn't believe in the existence of emotional affairs and as a result, once, got way too carried away with some guy I had to call and get rid of.

I am looking for a cost effective keylogger for her android Samsung phone that will be undetectable such that I can see all emails. I am looking at MSpy. Any thoughts on that and any other software suggestions.

Thanks!

8 comments posted: Thursday, August 23rd, 2018